You might have heard the term “nice” before, but do you really know what it is? Well, it’s not just a good name for a dessert, but rather, it can be a very useful word to describe the act of kindness.
A “nice” person will not only be a considerate listener, but he will also be a great friend and helper. These types of people are willing to put themselves out for others, even when they’d rather not. They will go above and beyond when it comes to helping their friends, family, and even strangers in need.
A “nice” person will also make use of the appropriate language to express his intentions. He will ask open-ended questions, believe in people, and speak positively even in the face of adversity.
Niceness is a tricky thing to practice, and it can be a real pain to keep up when dealing with different types of people. This is where a little bit of loving-kindness meditation can come in handy.
There are many ways to be nice, and some of them can be very obvious. For example, holding a door for someone else can be a nice gesture. However, it’s not always the best way to be kind. It can lead to some major problems.
The best part about being nice is the feeling you get when you help another human being. In a nutshell, being kind is an instinctive response to a situation. Basically, you just want to be helpful. When you do this, you feel good, and it makes the person you’re helping feel good too.
The empathetic part of your brain will also be stimulated to increase its ability to understand the feelings of others, and to generate feelings of love. Basically, you will become a better, more loving person.
Besides being a good friend or family member, you should also be a nice person to yourself. Being nice to yourself means you accept yourself for who you are, and don’t criticize yourself or others for your flaws. If you want to be a good friend, remember that it’s more important to be fair than to be comfortable.
Likewise, you should make sure you’re making the most of the many other types of niceness, like using the best words to say the right things and acting the right way. Using the right words, such as the ones mentioned above, is also a good idea, and a good habit to cultivate.
The best way to be a nice person is to show empathy towards other people, and to make a conscious effort to listen to them. Also, you should be patient with them, even when it means putting your own needs on the backburner for a while. And you should be able to explain to them why you’re doing what you are doing.
Ultimately, being a good friend or loved one can be a challenge. However, it can also be a lot of fun.