People often use the word nice to describe someone who is friendly and ingratiating, who treats others with respect and kindness. While nice is a positive trait, it can also have negative consequences. Whether you’re a naturally nice person or trying to be nicer, understanding the complexities of this word can help you make more informed decisions about how you interact with other people.

Historically, nice has had many different meanings, ranging from “foolish or stupid” to “pleasant and agreeable” or “civilized.” Today, it can be used in a variety of ways, including to describe an attractive, well-mannered woman. Some researchers have even suggested that the word is becoming less and less meaningful, and that its current senses are no longer accurate reflections of the language’s etymology or historical usage.

Psychologists have described five broad dimensions of personality, and one of these is known as agreeableness. Several traits that psychologists associate with this dimension, such as empathy and compassion, are related to being nice. These traits include showing concern for the safety and feelings of other people, being a supportive friend, and taking responsibility for your actions.

People who are innately nice tend to have a high level of social competence, which includes being able to read and understand the emotions of other people. In addition, they have a strong desire to please and be liked. They often exhibit generosity, going out of their way to help others and show their appreciation for them. They also have good self-esteem and are able to avoid being overly critical of themselves.

Some people who are prone to being nice may be overly concerned with the opinions and feelings of other people, leading them to act in a manipulative way. For example, they may attempt to control the relationship by avoiding conflict or making ultimatums. They may also be unable to express their own thoughts and feelings, which can lead to disconnection and low self-esteem.

Being a genuinely nice person involves being understanding and compassionate, and it can be challenging for some people to do. Nonetheless, it is an important trait for healthy relationships.

Nice Pathways

NICE pathways are graphical presentations of NICE guidance that bring together related guidance, between and within topics, and link to other NICE products such as quality standards and implementation resources. They facilitate local engagement with NICE topics and encourage the implementation of clinical guidelines. They are being developed by NICE, a non-profit organization that helps people lead healthier lives. The pathways are available online and will be updated monthly. You can subscribe to receive notifications when new pathways are published. In addition, you can comment on draft guidance and standards through NICE’s consultation portal. You can also submit a shared learning example of how you’ve implemented NICE guidance or standards in your organisation. This will be recognised at the annual NICE Shared Learning Awards. Visit NICE’s website to find out more.